You are going to make it. It may be hard, but you are going to make it.
Maybe you feel you are one step away from drowning in an endless body of water and nothing you do would be able to stop what might inevitably happen?
Or possibly what you feel isn’t that drastic. It could be you simply see yourself as a hamster, on an endless rollercoaster of worries, anxieties, fears, responsibilities, with a break of 5mintues, just enough time to catch your breath before the next rollercoaster starts again.
However, no matter the scene you picture yourself in, one thing is certain, you are left feeling tired and drained every day.
I know this because I have been there, still there. The sad part is 8 in every 10 individual you meet is currently going through something similar.
The world is getting tougher every single minute, jobs are been lost as companies are going through economic downturns, most countries are facing economic recessions, people are losing their families and homes, a lot more people are getting sick. With the addition of the covid-19 pandemic, an already bleak world is looking bleaker and bleaker. We now live in a world more isolating than how it began.
All the more reason why protecting your mental health is important.
Over the past couple of weeks, I have had to review just how important protecting my mental health is. How easy it is to feel the iron-clad strength slip away and try as you might, it can’t be stopped.
While you try not to ride the tide of endless negative emotions, one thing that can drag anyone down is the feeling that no one would understand, that you don’t have the “right” to complain, to feel how you do.
Why? Because you believe that with each complaint, there are people who are in life situations worse than yours.
Then you begin to wonder, ” why am I complaining about?”. ” why am I placing my burden of how I feel on others?”
Then you resolve to keep it to your self, till it eats you up slowly.
Perhaps that’s not your dilemma, maybe it’s simply not having someone you trust enough to be vulnerable with.
I’m here to share with you what I try to remind my self every morning, “your feelings are valid, every single one of them. Most importantly you are stronger than what ever you are going through right now.”
Unfortunately, I don’t have any quick-fix solution, if I did I would be very rich right now.
What I do know is, one day when you look back it will be with a simile on your face, for the battles you faced and won.
I hope it helps. Your partner in the fight for mental strength.
Love and hugs.
Remember to reach out to someone and check on someone today.
I also write here: http://www.anwuli.com